Listening to Others

My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to counsel.

He who answers a matter before he hears it—this is folly and disgrace to him.

A fool does not delight in understanding, but only in airing his opinions.

If you cease to hear instruction, my son, you will stray from the words of knowledge.

…if you incline your ear to wisdom and direct your heart to understanding,

For lack of guidance, a nation falls, but with many counselors comes deliverance.

Even a fool is considered wise if he keeps silent, and discerning when he holds his tongue.

…to malign no one, and to be peaceable and gentle, showing full consideration to everyone.

He who guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from distress.