Going to your Brother

If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. …

If anyone says, “I love God,” but hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.

But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle, accommodating, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.

For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every evil practice.

For judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment.

Brothers, if someone is caught in a trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him with a spirit of gentleness. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody.

That is how My heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”

So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you,