Ephesians 6:4

Children and Parents · Ephesians 6:1–4
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Translations

Modern
Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Traditional
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Literal
And fathers, do not provoke to anger your children, but nourish them in the discipline and admonition of the Lord.
Latin
Et vos patres, nolite ad iracundiam provocare filios vestros: sed educate illos in disciplina et correptione Domini.

Original

Greek
English
Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Notes

  • Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath: Fathers can make their children angry by being harsh or unfair (see Colossians 3:21).

  • bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord: Parents should teach their children discipline and lessons from the Lord so they learn a good way of living that pleases God. This discipline should be loving and gentle. It should not be excessive, so that children are not turned away from the Lord but are drawn to him (compare Hebrews 12:5–11).

The relationship between parents and children should reflect their devotion to the Lord. Christian children should obey their parents, and Christian parents should discipline their children gently (see Colossians 3:20–21).

Paul provides clear guidance on how believers should interact in a Christian home (see also Colossians 3:18–4:1; 1 Peter 2:18–3:7). Love and respect should define all relationships among believers as a way to show their commitment to the Lord.

Theme notes and profiles

Paul (Saul) Children and Parents The Household

Parallels

Colossians 3:18–21

Glossary

Bible, Manuscripts and Text of the (New Testament) Biblical Concept of Law Discipline Letter to the Ephesians Nurture

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